
boy's breath
The first and only tracheostomy I ever saw was on a medical drama TV show when I was a kid. Some poor soul was gasping for air in the wilds of nowhere. The show’s hero doctor takes a pen, cauterizes it with a flick of his lighter and stabs it into the man’s windpipe. Then he pushes a drinking straw into the hole he made and saves the guy’s life.
As life would have it, I now know a lot more about tracheostomies then I learned from that TV show.
Last month, Alex, one of my son’s friends, had the same, albeit much less dramatic, procedure performed in the sterile confines of an operating room. His breathing muscles, weakened by duchenne, were unable to keep up with his body’s demand for oxygen. A tracheostomy is one way a respirator can meet that demand.

He should be home by now.
My son, Petey, also had a tracheostomy two years ago. The operation was unremarkable, practically over before we knew it had started. The next day, Petey looked more animated than I had seen him in a long time.
We, the family, began our training in trach care, learning to clear secretions with a suction catheter and how clean is clean enough when working with an exposed airway.
In fact, once the surgeon gave the ok and the respiratory therapist approved our techniques, Petey could go home. He would learn to talk around the trach and since he would be healthier with a reliable source of oxygen, he could be weaned off his respirator for periods of time.
Expectations diverged from reality. Petey developed sepsis, an antibiotic resistant infection, and a pneumothorax. For several months he was in and out of the hospital. As one day morphed into the next I had to think that Petey’s life from here on out would be cycles of sickness culminating in emergency room visits.
But things improved. I can’t say when Petey turned the corner but he did.
As for me, somewhere in the milieu, keeping up with the new demands and my life, I got lost. I backed away from friends and disconnected from the world as much as a job and my family would allow.
The many kindnesses of friends and strangers did not make the bad stuff go away yet their care and attention were the light at the end of the tunnel. Peter, my husband, was my rock.
Now, two years later, Petey is completely recovered. He writes songs and is the lead singer of his band. Me - I am still broken around the ed
I can work with this.
Petey’s friend, Alex, is at Georgetown Hospital struggling with complications from his surgery. He developed sepsis and is very weak. A family meeting successfully circumvented the hospital’s plans to move him to a different facility to ‘wean him from the trach.’ Since when did weaning from a trach become a euphemism for ‘our statistics matter most’? I get mad thinking that Alex’s family has to deal with bureaucracy on top of everything else.
Hopefully Alex and his family will have some measure of comfort knowing our family made it through just such a time.
lab mom
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There are good reasons to choose either invasive or noninvasive ventilation support. This is just one story. Get the facts. A good place to begin is the American Thoracic Society link below.
To download The American Thoracic Society’s Respiratory Care of the Patient with duchenne muscular dystrophy
lab word of the day from MedicineNet.com
Sepsis: Commonly called a "blood stream infection." The presence of bacteria (bacteremia) or other infectious organisms or their toxins in the blood (septicemia) or in other tissue of the body. Sepsis may be associated with clinical symptoms of systemic (bodywide) illness, such as fever, chills, malaise (generally feeling "rotten"), low blood pressure, and mental status changes. Sepsis can be a serious situation, a life threatening disease calling for urgent and comprehensive care.
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“Nothing is hopeless. We must hope for everything”, Horace, quoted by Mrs. Who in A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L’Engle